Mrs H, do we appear to you a person who will not benefit from the connection obtained through conversation? Discussion just isn’t my love language because connection is certainly not my love content. The mixture of thoughts that we interpret as intimate love just isn’t mainly connection. It doesn’t mean that connection is unimportant in my own notion of intimate love, nor that connection is unimportant in non-romantic love (or like, or acquaintance).
It’s not that folks whoever love-language that is primary desire ( perhaps not intercourse, keep in mind) are completely happy as people with only their wife and their task. That other connections are unimportant. They just provide one with something different, other than that which makes love that is up*romantic. Other activities that appear less essential when one does not have intimate love (and desires this one had it).
But once one gets a couple of oranges, one begins to crave other food stuffs that offer things aside from supplement C.
@Emily, with regards to your remark here that I needed the “hour long conversation before the meal” when I was dating– it’s true. Because why in the world can you like to offer and receive love from somebody who does know you, n’t who you don’t understand?